So my roommate Georgia met this guy a little while ago and he was involved with someone else so she told him they couldn’t see each other until he sorted the girl situation out. He said ok, then called her the next morning at about 7.30am. She invited him over. They had sex for the first time.
He then spent the weekend at his country house with this other girl and called Georgia on his way back into town. She started to ‘tawk’ about her feelers and he got off the phone real fast.
She turned to me and said “He was so rude just then, he has no manners. My feelings are hurt!”.
I said “Well you don’t really know him yet. Maybe this is just his way and he doesn’t mean anything by it. Just chalk it up to information about his character and see what happens next.”
She got one or two text messages from him through the week. Friday afternoon at about 6 he calls her and says “What are you doing tonight? Want to come over for dinner?”
She said sure and went over to his house to have another tawk. I’ll bet you anything they have sex again. He’ll give her excuses about this other girl and why they can’t break up.
Is it just me or is this guy offering Georgia crumbs and she’s lapping it up?
She’s ‘rewarding’ his appalling behaviour with her rapt attention and is totally emotionally invested in this situation already.
If she kept her knickers on, she wouldn’t stand such a chance of getting her heart broken into tiny little pieces.
I don’t know what to say to her, or how to react. I know exactly what’s going to happen. She has expectations of him that he’s not meeting, that he doesn’t even have an obligatoin to try and meet because they’re not in a relationship! He’s not even single!